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What if someone asks a question I don’t know?

by Shannon Brinkley
Mar 17, 2026

There’s a fear almost every future teacher has, and they don’t always say it out loud…

 
Welcome to the business side of Notes from the Studio

 

There’s a fear almost every future teacher has.

They don’t always say it out loud.

But it sounds like this:

“What if someone asks a question I don’t know?”

What if I freeze?
What if I look silly?
What if they realize I’m not as experienced as they are?
What if I’m exposed as a fraud?

I remember feeling little flickers of that in the beginning.

Because in every single room I walked into, there were quilters who had been quilting longer than I had been alive.

Decades of experience.
Entire techniques I had never even tried.
Whole corners of the quilting world I knew nothing about.

And yet… I was at the front of the room.

 

The questions are always the same

After teaching the same workshop over and over, I realized there were maybe five to ten core questions that came up every time.

Not fifty.
Not a hundred.
Five to ten.

 

Quilters are not sitting in guild meetings plotting how to trick you

They are there to have fun.
To create.
To learn something new.
To enjoy the day.

They are some of the warmest, most generous humans on the planet.

No one is waiting for you to fail.

 

This is the part that's unexpected

If someone asks a question you truly don’t know…

You don’t lose credibility.

You gain leadership.

Because leadership doesn’t mean knowing everything.

It means facilitating the room.

If someone asks something unexpected, you can say:

“That’s such a good question. I haven’t thought about that before.”

Pause.

“Here’s one idea that comes to mind…”

And then:

“Has anyone else experimented with this?”

And do you know what happens?

Hands go up.

Because in a room of 10, 20, 50 quilters…
Someone has tried it.
Someone has insight.
Someone is excited to contribute.

You become the guide.
The facilitator.
The person holding the container.

You don’t have to be an encyclopedia of quilting.

You just have to guide the experience you know well.

 


And here’s the truth:

You are not teaching “all of quilting.”

You are teaching one specific thing.

One technique.
One approach.
One experience.

You don’t need to be the most experienced quilter in the room.

You need to know one thing deeply enough to lead others through it.


And if you’re worried about the questions?

That’s exactly why training matters.

Because when you’ve been shown the common questions…
The common mistakes…
The natural sticking points…

You don’t walk in guessing.

You walk in prepared.

 

The fear isn’t really about the question.

It’s about being seen.

And here’s what I can tell you after teaching hundreds of rooms:

You won’t be exposed as a fraud.

You’ll be seen as someone generous enough to share.

And that’s a very different thing.

 

Have a lovely rest of your day,

Shannon

 

P.S. If you’re interested in becoming a quilt/craft teacher, keep an eye out for emails from me, as we’ll be opening up Earlybird Enrollment for our 2026 Certified Teacher Program soon! 

 

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